Unexpressed or unexplained fear is causing more depression and loneliness than I can predict. Young adults are hiding and not feeling known because they fear this will be taken the wrong way.
Find someone who is loving and trusting and tell them everything. Or at least try. If they don’t get it, regroup and tell somebody else who does. Don’t let the ashamed unknown eat away at you like a cancer.
Did you know that the Bible describes a moment where all hell breaks loose on Jesus and all his closest friends desert Him and leave Jesus all alone. [i] Jesus alone is not a something you hear preached very often. God himself has felt your predicament to its fullest. Yet Jesus' strong statement of faith in the alone was this, “Yet I am not alone, for my Father is with me.”
We are not all alone. We are not that special. God never gave us the prideful right to think that we are above or below anyone helping us. Others can help if you will let them in. God can help. Choose someone who really cares and if you don’t have any friends like that, go to a church or find a stranger who will listen because you deserve that. Pray out loud because God wants to hear. God will understand our crazy. One of his qualities to the max is patience. When we are at our wits end for an answer, then the Holy Spirit can give us an answer. But how can He give us an answer when we are still well supplied with all sorts of answers of our own. [ii]
Let it marinate and soak in. Reflect and read this statement below three times:
I called on your name, LORD,
from the depths of the pit.
You came near and said,
“Do not fear.”[iii]