Have you ever had one of those days where you stepped outside and wondered what the weather was thinking? It’s somewhere between sunny and raining and you’re not sure whether it’s misting or spitting. Or it’s between raining and snowing and you’re not sure whether to call it hailing, sleeting, or slushing? Sometimes I’m not sure there is even a word to describe the weather outside of “temperamental”!? That’s exactly where the single twenties stage of life is outside of education.
Right where you don’t know quite what to call it and what it wants to be. It’s no man’s land. Right where you react by smirking and shaking your head or by getting just plain upset at the weather for not making up its mind.
Stuck Alone in the Unknown
School gives you direction and a social life but what do you do once you’re out? Culture says family and a good job answer this question. They will fix those feelings of alone and the unknown. They are security.
But what if I don’t want to move back home or get married? And what if I can’t get a job or my current job definitely doesn’t make me feel more secure about enjoying life and my future success? Does that make me stubborn and selfish? Does that make me completely alone and lost? No.
But these questions do leave a lot of people feeling lost and confused. It leaves a group feeling alone like the invisible minority displaced in the confusing unknown shadows of mainstream…
God is a God of the Alone
Sometimes you need to get alone to realize that you’re not alone. It sounds funny but humanity can be lonely without God. We can have people all around us and still feel like we have nowhere to turn. Elijah is being chased after an epic stand for the Lord and complains, “I am the only one left, and now they are trying to kill me too” (1 Kings 19:10). God’s reply is just as epic, ““Go out and stand on the mountain in the presence of the LORD… I reserve seven thousand in Israel” (1 Kings 19:11,18). Seven Thousand Others! And Elijah thought he was the only one. Elijah had to go to the mountain so that his lonely soul could hear the Lord whisper what he couldn’t feel or see, “You are not alone.”
You are not alone in the unknown.
-none of us lives for ourselves alone, and none of us dies for ourselves alone-